1 Nephi 18:3,5

Revelation for that which is our stewardship:

Throughout 1st Nephi, it can be confusing as to whom is really the spiritual leader of this small society. Obviously Nephi is a prophet as well as Lehi and received many revelations throughout the chapters. Even though Nephi seems to often defer to Lehi (1 Nephi 16:23), what is the different between them? They both talk to the Lord. They both receive revelation.

There is a simple distinction that can minimize confusion. Nephi never got a revelation for anyone but himself. Yes, his communications with the Lord had impact on the group, but he was never told, "Here is what everyone should do". Instead he was told "Here is what YOU should do."

Verses 3 and 5 in chapter 18 illustrate the point. In verse 3 Nephi continues to learn many great things from the Lord, most specifically to do with his responsibilities of building the boat. Then, in verse 5, Lehi receives the revelation that it is time for all (including Nephi) to go down into the ship.

Even if the extent of our stewardship is just our own lives, it is possible to qualify for direct revelation from the Lord. Even revelations on the level Nephi saw.

1 Nephi 17:3,13

There is an interesting principle here of the pattern to successfully accomplish difficult commandments. We have to take the leap of faith and get to work, even not knowing how we can accomplish the commandment. THEN God will show us the way, lead us, strengthen us and make it possible for us to achieve.